Blue Letter #2

Letter: 

"Dear Isabella,
     So at one point in time, I fell for my best friend. we met and clicked instantly, vibes were good and everything but she had a (no good) man at the time. he would cheat on her and she would tell me about it and cry about it. we spent a bunch of time together, went out a couple times because I wanted to treat her how she deserved to be treated since her bf wasn't. I told her how I really felt and after a while, they broke up and we started talking and chilling and things were great until she wanted to run back to her old bf who always did her wrong. so my question is why do girls sometimes leave a new, good relationship to go back to a old, bad situation?"

Response:

 Thank you for submitting your letter to Truth By Bella. Excited that you're the first Blue Letter (guy) submission. Alright so now moving onto your letter, I could identify with your best friend and relate to her cause I was once that girl some time ago. I don't want to go into any details lol. Although you caught feelings for her, it is clear she is more invested in the guy who you claim is no good. You have to think sometimes if it worth loosing your best friend who's in a tough situation to pursing a new relationship. Once you're friends and move into the next step which is a relationship, you can't always go back to how things were. I'm not saying it's your fault. Honestly, would you want to be with a person who isn't over their past completely? However, maybe she doesn't realize if you would be good for her or not. She's probably stuck on the guy because she's hoping he will change one day. I hope I answered your question. It's rare a female would leave a good relationship to get back to a bad one. It's all about foundation & communication! Coming from a person who knows a lot regarding situations like this. 

Pink Letter #1

Letter:

“Hey Bella,
Well I'm in a situation with this guy from school. We are not in a relationship, we aren't intimate but we are aware of the feeling that we have for each other. I really like him however I'm uncertain about his ability to be faithful. He older then me and he's an athlete so alotta females are always in his DM's or sending pictures.  He tells me not to worry but how can I not if they are everywhere. He doesn't want a relationship now and I understand cause I don't want either. I feel like we are just stuck because we both like each other but is that enough?”

Response:

Hi there,

 Thank you for sharing your situation with my viewers and me. If you guys have feelings for each other, why aren’t you guys in a relationship? Or do you guys just like the idea of each other being there? That was the first thing that popped up in my mind. With the DMs part, it should matter how he is also responding back to these females. If you feel like he’ll be unfaithful to you in a relationship, girl let him go and let him be with the girls that are in his DMs. If a male likes a female, he would not entertain other females in his DMs.  Keep that in mind because I’m positive that you’re a beautiful, intelligent, young Queen. If you know you truly want a relationship, don’t go along with the idea that you don’t cause the guy you want isn’t ready for one. If you stay “stuck” in this situation with him, you never know if you’re missing out on another person who is right for me. Honestly, try moving on and focusing on yourself or stand your ground with him and set things straight. He’ll eventually realize on what he is missing out on. Just keep your crown straight and your prince charming will come to you. I hope I helped you out today :)

 - Isabella

Truth By Bella's "Pink & Blue Letters" - Video

If you haven't had the chance to read my previous post "Truth By Bella's Pink & Blue Letters" before this video, this video & post is going to sum what was said. You could read the previous post also, if you're unclear. 

Here's a quick video & a post explain in case you didn't catch everything explained.

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Stay Tune for the Letters & Responses

Thank you for your time, 

Isabella, TruthByBella

Truth By Bella's "Pink & Blue Letters"

Hi everyone, 

 My lovely viewers, it has been a WHILE! When school is in session, I took a hiatus from blogging, photography & most social media networks. I actually enjoy using Snapchat because I get the chance to post something really quick & back to work.

I know you're probably interested on what the title of the post means with "Pink & Blue Letters". I'm going to explain it now. I'm sure everyone has seen that movie "Think Like A Man" or some have even read the book "Think Like A Man, Act Like A Day". Confession: I read the book & watch the movie countless of times. :) Steve Harvey was brilliant with that & gave females a notion into what guys think about. His radio station has read "Strawberry Letters" every morning. 

Strawberry Letters: Letters emailed to Steve Harvey & Shirley's radio station when older people talk about their current relationships and basically asking for advice. It's completely anonymous. I've heard some interesting letters on their radio station.

So Truth By Bella is doing same thing here. Here's your chance to receive advice from me. I must say I'm candid, honest person.

It's called Pink & Blue Letters.

You, the reader, could send an email to: truthbybella16@gmail.com

The subject line of the email depends on what sex you are

^ Subject Line: Pink Letter (Females) or Blue Letter (Males) ^

In the body, start off with "Dear Isabella" or "Hey Bella", then you could talk about a past or current relationship/friendship you're in. A situation you would want honest advice on. Everything is confidential. I would advise you to NOT add any names in your letter. However if you do, I will change the name to a generic one. Make sure you explain the situation well enough so I could understand & be able to give clear advice. 

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When you're done, sign with an Adjective on how you're feeling

I'm going to create a video to explain if you're not clear on what I mean :)

Hope to hear from you soon, 

Isabella

Making 2016 Fun!

Welcome back to Truth By Bella,

2015 was an unpredictable year! I must say I'm already loving the start of 2016. This year is all about Positive Vibes Only (PVO). That's the Motto! YOLO? :)

Coming soon to Truth By Bella is a video from Isabella on Plans for TBB in 2016. Before the video comes out, I'm going to need a quick favor from all viewers. I would like you to participate in a quick survey so we all together could make this year FUN! It will take less than 2 minutes to complete. 

Link: https://www.surveymonkey.com/r/6F5J92F

Bet you didn't know Isabella is a Business & Event Planning Student! Just a Fun Fact for future posts, keep note of that :) Be on the watch for the upcoming video & give-aways on here!

Thank you for your time, 

Truth By Bella (Isabella)

"Sweater Weather"

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"Sweater Weather"

Model: Sasha

Photographer: Isabella B.